Melt Your Man's Heart - What NEVER to say or do to your man...

Melt your man's heart is a companion guide to help you getting useful information for keeping a good relation with your partner and a guide to win you man's heart. Melt Your Man's Heart is the quickest, most easily accessible source that you have to the latest relationship research findings for "influencing your husband" and "getting a positive response" without resorting to expensive face-to-face therapy.

Have you ever wondered why some men treat their women like a princess even well PAST the dating phase?

Even after many years these guys STILL buy flowers, they remember EVERY special occasion and they give their women their FULL attention when they are with them.

They NEVER retreat to the garage, NEVER ignore them to watch the football game on TV and NEVER disappear for hours on end to play golf with their "buddies."

Well recent reports from relationship scientists (yes, those do exist!) say that you can actually get that exact SAME love, attention and warmth from your man, regardless of how long you've been together or how rocky your relationship may be.

How can you melt your man's heart and  Getting Your Man to Treat YOU Like a Princess ?

The secret to unlocking this same love and affection from your man is probably something you've never considered. But once you know the secret, you can literally change your man and influence him to treat you better...even like a princess.

Now before you accuse me of heresy, let me explain by asking you a question:

Is there something you or your man do that REALLY gets him going?

You know what I'm talking about... maybe it's a word, or a certain look, maybe a flick of the hand or a shoulder shrug - something that REALLY gets under his skin?

Whatever it is you KNOW it drives him batty and the result is typically the same.

Within milliseconds, his face turns the color of a boiled lobster; his heart practically leaps out of his chest and he either explodes with rage, he runs away to the garage and you don't see him for hours, or he just sits there...stone-faced, not saying a word.

WHAT just happened?

His Brain Was Just Hijacked...

Familiar with the fight or flight response?  Well, you just witnessed it and it's the reason why a simple argument can turn into an all-out war.

Every one of us has a little internal guard on duty 24/7 in our brain.  It's called the amygdala and it's the small walnut-sized part of your brain responsible for alerting the body to danger.

The amygdala processes incoming information and automatically searches your memory bank to determine if it recognizes the information as friend or foe.

All of this happens instantly, and if the brain has memory of that word or action and the memory is bad... the body goes into an automatic negative response over which you have almost NO control.

It's called neural hijacking and it literally stops love, warmth, and intimacy from being able to enter the relationship.

And this automatic negative response is triggered by those little shoulder shrugs, those eye rolls...and anything else you may do that has conditioned your man to react negatively.

And once this happens, it's game over - your man won't listen to ANYTHING you say after this and you'll both go round and round with finger-pointing, name-calling and laying blame on each other.

How to Eliminate these Triggers and Establish a Deep Emotional Connection...

The good news is that you can uncover what these triggers are (for BOTH of you) and set the stage for both of you to plant, nurture, and harvest new feelings of love and intimacy.

Here's exactly what you do when you coming to melt your man's heart:

First, think of a few actions you know set him off.  Be specific.  You know what they are, if you dig deep enough - you use a "tone," you make a face, you have a specific phrase you say when discussing a touchy subject, whatever.

And when you use any of these things, you get a negative response out of him.  Write those down now and remember them.

Second, go straight to the source: ask him what you do that sets off his emotional firebombs.  But don't get defensive...let him have his say...just listen.

He may feel reluctant at first to share, or maybe he's not even aware that there might be something specific linked to his going off.  Regardless, after you begin compiling your list, here is what you do...

It's as simple as that.

Unless you really want to end up a divorce statistic or you really enjoy sifting through dating sites, avoid doing those behaviors or saying those words that cause problems in your relationship.

Once these are gone...your partner won't have those mental blocks or love filters, and you'll have a much easier time building intimacy and affection again.

This really works and I've been using this tip and several others for 25 years, teaching it to every woman who comes to me wanting to know how to melt her man's heart...and in return, have her man treat her like he did when they first started dating - like a princess!

Perfect Couple Share - A guide to Melt Your Man's Heart

There's no doubt that relationships can be complicated beasts...but that doesn't mean they can't be just have to follow the formula for success.

It's the SAME formula that those "perfect couples" you envy follow.

Melt Your Man's Heart
Here it is:

* Step 1:  Learn what DESTRUCTIVE ingredients tear a relationship apart.
* Step 2:  Look at what CONSTRUCTIVE ingredients make a relationship great.
* Step 3:  Eliminate the destructive ingredients one by one.
* Step 4:  Add the constructive ingredients one by one.
* Step 5:  Rinse and repeat this process as your circumstances change.

The result?

A relationship that's truly fulfilling with a man who showers you with attention, love, respect, and caring...all without you having to twist his arm!

It sounds simple...and it is, in theory, but the devil is in the details of how exactly this all gets done.

Over the past 25 years in working with couples, I've been able to distill this process down to its most simple steps, some of which I want to share with you now.

The WORST Destructive Ingredient to Eliminate Immediately...

Let's first take a look at getting rid of what I've found is THE single worst destructive ingredient - and that's contempt.

What do I mean by "contempt"?  Let me give you an example.

Okay, so you and your man have gotten into an argument.

Are you simply disagreeing or are you yelling and screaming at each other?

Is it getting personal?

Do you feel you are on the attack and he is on the defensive or vice versa?

Has anybody been brought to tears?

Arguments are okay, but when it starts to get personal, when you start attacking each other, putting each other down, showing contempt for each other, that's when a vicious cycle ensues.

With every action, there is a reaction. That's stepping over into a law of physics, but it applies here: if you say something in a certain tone of voice, you may get a response from your man that "matches" your tone of voice.

If you show contempt, he'll show contempt, and then you'll get into a destructive game of trying to one-up each other for the worst put down and then all bets are off.

This is a damaging cycle that you want to avoid at ALL costs.

So your first step is to immediately stop the contempt and personal attacks - this can be hard sometimes, especially if he's personally attacking you, but it's where this whole process HAS to start.

Instead of responding with an equivalent personal attack, what exactly ARE you supposed to do?

Well, glad you asked!

Add This Ingredient to Open Up Your Man's Heart...

You've probably heard the old saying, "You catch more bees with honey."

It means that there are two ways of saying something: one is sweet like honey; the other is tart like vinegar.

For example, if you're arguing and he says, "You know, you're really clingy," stop yourself from reacting defensively and trying to come up with your own zinger to "one-up" him.  If you want to melt his heart, that's not the road to success.

Instead, go for the honey-sweet approach: take a deep breath, count to five... and then calmly say, "If you feel you need more space, then let's discuss that."  You just threw him for a loop-but in a good way, because you're offering to consider his needs.  You just took the heat out of his fire, and instead showed him you care.  That will remind him that you're the dream girl he first fell in love with - warm, caring and loving.

I've found over the last 25 years that the #1 predictor of relationship success is the presence of these good, "honey"-style habits.

You can't necessarily directly control what your man says or how he reacts, but you DO have control over what YOU say and do.

And this ultimately indirectly influences how your man reacts and whether this is just a bump in the road or if it's going to turn into an unmitigated relationship disaster.

Do THIS to Enjoy a Honeymoon Forever...

To have a successful relationship, one that draws your man to you like a bee to honey, avoid those destructive relationship ingredients - such as tart words - and substitute them with a little honey.

The more you do this, the more likely your relationship will be successful - and the envy of your friends.

I want you to think over what destructive habits you may have right now that could inadvertently be tearing your relationship apart and driving your man away.

Then think about how you can respond instead with honey - it'll be tough at first because your initial reaction will be an emotional one, but over time, after practice, it'll become second nature.

It's not your fault: it's easy for couples to fall into bad relationship patterns.

Your man has his fair share of things he says and does that drive you away too, but you have the power to influence him to do better.

Follow my advice and pretty soon, you and your man will be that "perfect couple" that everyone ELSE envies.

Melt Your Man's Heart - Unlock Your Man’s Heart

We have see happy couples around us. They seems blissfully in love and they look deeply and passionately into each other's eyes. Looks that's there's no doubt  that they are intoxicated with each other's presence. Like no others else exists.
You might wonder and asking and even thought to yourself, does it really happen? and you probably also thought: "if they can, then why can't I?"

Maybe you've struggled to interact with your man the same way, only to have your gestures either totally ignored or worse...thrown back in your face.

If that's you, it's probably because there's ONE crucially important thing that you are NOT yet doing in your relationship.

But once you start doing this, you open the gates to a passionate, deeply fulfilling and loving relationship with your that lasts.
This will come to your mind. How to Make Your Relationship the Envy of Your Friends...
There's no doubt that relationships can be complicated beasts...but that doesn't mean they can't be just have to follow the formula for success.

It's the SAME formula that those "perfect couples" you envy follow.
We're not talking big deals here like a weekend away to the tropics or a piece of jewelry or flowers every time there's a big fight... just simple little things, such as...

* A little kiss good morning...
* A long hug and sign of affection when you return home...
* A compliment about your appearance...
* A love note...
* A kind word...
* A thoughtful gesture...

In other words, it's the "little things" that actually make a HUGE difference.